Saturday, July 11, 2015

Beginning Again

While there is a lot of backstory to tell, the real news is that I am starting over.  We are starting over.  Instead of being one family of four, we will be two families of three.  The kids and I some of the time, and the kids and her for the rest.

This is where the backstory comes in.  It's complicated, confusing and heartbreaking but also a beautiful transformation of finding true happiness.  You see, I never imagined that Brian would not be a part of my life forever.  Three years ago, all of that started changing for me.  Well, for us...really.  And if I am really being technical it started much farther back than that, I just wasn't aware that it was happening or was completely in denial.  I am still unsure of that myself.

Before I tell this story, I need to be clear that no one is at fault for the separation of our union.  We made a mutual decision after trying really hard to find our way in this new life.  I do own up to my lack of communication during the last three years but can't live with regrets and know that I need to move forward with life today.

Stay tuned for the backstory and to see where life takes us.




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